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The best way to find your passion. 

Hello to the amazing person reading this today. Quick question.   Do you know what is your passion?  I’ve asked myself this question for a few years now.  I would  log my little happy 😄 go lucky self on ,  Facebook,  Instagram and  Pinterest looking at all of these people with businesses and thousands of  followers,  thinking to myself that my life was boring and not successful because it didn’t measure up to these people.  //pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js
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google_ad_client: “ca-pub-8740277263380755”, would log  off of these social media sites feeling depleted and depressed questioning my passions or a lack thereof. I started going to websites to take personality tests to find my passion,  paying for self-help seminars and buying book after book on finding my  passion.  Don’t get me wrong,  these resources are really good avenues to seek.  After years of beating myself up about not making money doing something im passionate about because I couldn’t figure it out,  I started asking myself this question.  What if my passion was as simple as being the best mom I can be?  There are a lot of popular and rich women on social media and some are horrible moms.  What if my passion was to keep my house clean,  neat and in order?  Who wouldn’t take pride in a clean house?   What if my passion was the joy that I feel from gift giving?  What if my passion was to listen and give advice to people so they can figure out where their hurt and pain stems from in life?  Its a lot of hurt people in this world.  What if i was passionate about taking photographs of  the things I consider to be beautiful and writing about my feelings and experiences?  What if my passion was to be the best wife I can be?  I mean,  haven’t you  seen divorce rates these day?  So, Who says I have to make money or be popular with my passions to be valuable in life?  Well,  I enjoy doing these things.  I’m extremely passionate about these things and I don’t make one single coin from it.   Its like I was dealing with social media peer pressure.  Like Trying to fit in with those popular highschool girls that other girls looked up to.  My point is to look within yourself and do the things that you value the most.  It doesn’t matter how simple it may be.  It doesn’t matter if you’re not making money from it.  It doesn’t matter if you’re not becoming popular from it.  Stop judging yourself by other people standards.  Make your own standards and live by them.  I say to you and myself that we are great,  passionate and valuable to ourselves and to the people who are touched by us in a positive way because of our simple yet powerful passions.  I hope 🙏 this makes you feel better and make you look at this whole finding your passion thing in a different yet positive way.  Remember,  you are great!  Right here,  Right now!

This Woman Went $10,000 Into Debt Trying to Get Instagram Famous

This Woman Went $10,000 Into Debt Trying to Get Instagram Famous

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How to achieve these curls

After shampooing my hair, 

I Applied Giovanni direct leave-in conditioner, olive oil eco styler gel and grey perm rods. 

Rod your hair the way you would like your hair to fall. 

I allowed my hair to air dry. 

Once my hair was dry, I mist it with a little water in a spray bottle. 

How to make a vision board 

What is a  Vision Board ?

A vision board is a tool used to help clarify, concentrate and maintain focus on a specific life goal. Literally, a vision board is any sort of board on which you display images that represent whatever you want to be, do or have in your life. In our ultra-digital age, you can also create vision boards to display on your computer screen and mobile devices.

What is the point? Simply put, we tend to be a very busy species and constantly bombarded by distractions. Making use of vision boards serves several purposes, some of which include helping you to:

  • Identify your vision and give it clarity.
  • Reinforce your daily affirmations.
  • Keep your attention on your intentions.
  • Vision Boards Help Provide Clarity

For example, to say “I want a better life” is a fine goal, but have you given serious thought to exactly what that means? Try to envision what your “better life” looks like. For those of us who find that somewhat difficult, making a vision board can be a tremendous help. In order to create my vision board, I must actively seek images that represent specific details of my wonderful new life. That means narrowing it down to specifics. For some, a better life might mean having a new car or home. Others may be seeking a new relationship or improvements in existing relationships. Doubtless you have heard it said that most of us never get what we want because we don’t know what we want. Making a vision board is a wonderful way to bring clarity to that general desire and turn it into an achievable goal.

Use a Vision Board for Your Daily Affirmations

I have high self esteem
I love and respect myself
I am a great person
I respect myself deeply
My thoughts and opinions are valuable
I am confident that I can achieve anything
I have something special to offer the world
Others like and respect me

These are some examples of a vision board.

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So, since you now know what a vision looks like……

..vision board  3 I would love to post your vision board on my blog.





SEX…. Is it more of a chore or enjoyment?

This is another open forum for the ladies and gentlemen…

Question: Is sex more of a chore in a marriage/relationship or enjoyment?

I know some people can relate to  both sides. You hear about people being in relationship for a couple of years and lose the sexual enjoyment. Instead it become more of a chore. Something you do out of an obligation. If you didn’t have to do it you wouldn’t.

Quick scenario: chick gets ready for bed in a head scarf, sweat pants, big t-shirt with one sock on and the other one off. Boyfriend/ husband/fiancé, scratching his butt real hard, farts, look at his chic like she did it then yanks his boxers out of his crack just before getting under the covers. The chic has all kind of names going through her head that she wants to call him but instead both of them turn their backs to each other until……… he turns around and press it against her butt and then she has 2 seconds to come up with a good fake snore, get a fast head ache or take a deep breath and give in hoping it will be over soon.

My question is where does things go wrong? and why?  There are no right or wrong opinions.  I

I feel that sex is very important in  a relationship.  It’s where 2 people get a chance to connect on a spiritual level with their soul mate. It relieves stress, it makes your bond closer. It’s enjoyment for me… what about you?