The best way to find your passion. 

Hello to the amazing person reading this today. Quick question.   Do you know what is your passion?  I’ve asked myself this question for a few years now.  I would  log my little happy 😄 go lucky self on ,  Facebook,  Instagram and  Pinterest looking at all of these people with businesses and thousands of  followers,  thinking to myself that my life was boring and not successful because it didn’t measure up to these people.  //
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google_ad_client: “ca-pub-8740277263380755”, would log  off of these social media sites feeling depleted and depressed questioning my passions or a lack thereof. I started going to websites to take personality tests to find my passion,  paying for self-help seminars and buying book after book on finding my  passion.  Don’t get me wrong,  these resources are really good avenues to seek.  After years of beating myself up about not making money doing something im passionate about because I couldn’t figure it out,  I started asking myself this question.  What if my passion was as simple as being the best mom I can be?  There are a lot of popular and rich women on social media and some are horrible moms.  What if my passion was to keep my house clean,  neat and in order?  Who wouldn’t take pride in a clean house?   What if my passion was the joy that I feel from gift giving?  What if my passion was to listen and give advice to people so they can figure out where their hurt and pain stems from in life?  Its a lot of hurt people in this world.  What if i was passionate about taking photographs of  the things I consider to be beautiful and writing about my feelings and experiences?  What if my passion was to be the best wife I can be?  I mean,  haven’t you  seen divorce rates these day?  So, Who says I have to make money or be popular with my passions to be valuable in life?  Well,  I enjoy doing these things.  I’m extremely passionate about these things and I don’t make one single coin from it.   Its like I was dealing with social media peer pressure.  Like Trying to fit in with those popular highschool girls that other girls looked up to.  My point is to look within yourself and do the things that you value the most.  It doesn’t matter how simple it may be.  It doesn’t matter if you’re not making money from it.  It doesn’t matter if you’re not becoming popular from it.  Stop judging yourself by other people standards.  Make your own standards and live by them.  I say to you and myself that we are great,  passionate and valuable to ourselves and to the people who are touched by us in a positive way because of our simple yet powerful passions.  I hope 🙏 this makes you feel better and make you look at this whole finding your passion thing in a different yet positive way.  Remember,  you are great!  Right here,  Right now!

This Woman Went $10,000 Into Debt Trying to Get Instagram Famous

This Woman Went $10,000 Into Debt Trying to Get Instagram Famous

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I love ❤ Headwraps!! 

Do you enjoy headwraps as much as I do?

Why do I love ❤ them so?  Im glad you asked.  I am a very artistic person.  I love ❤ reinventing myself.  Headwraps are one way to do it.  Its fashionable,  pretty and lets not talk about how it helps you on those days that your hair refuse to behave.  If you wear a headwrap the right way with some high heels and jeans……… oh girl!!!!!!  Talking about stopping traffic lol. My Pinterest are full of them.  Here are a few pictures of me with headwraps…… //
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Natural hair photoshoot

I’ve always wanted to do a natural hair photoshoot but  never  got around to doing it. As of lately, I have become fond of photography.  I like it because it allows me to be creative and fun.  I’ve also started wearing head wraps and makeup. In fact, I enjoy taking pictures so much, I decided to start doing photoshoots of natural hair women and men as a celebration of our natural beauty. I love to travel too so I figured I could combine the two and enjoy where it takes me.  Here are some of my pictures

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How to achieve these curls

After shampooing my hair, 

I Applied Giovanni direct leave-in conditioner, olive oil eco styler gel and grey perm rods. 

Rod your hair the way you would like your hair to fall. 

I allowed my hair to air dry. 

Once my hair was dry, I mist it with a little water in a spray bottle. 

When God speaks,  do you listen?  What is he saying to you?

God speaks to us in many ways. One of those ways is through our mess aka Trials and tribulations. For instance, I use to struggle with trust in my marriage. It was the hardest thing for me because of what I had been through. I use to pray to god to change my husband, change the situation just change something. lol But something happend that I wasnt expecting. Instead of god changing my husband’s behavior, he switched it back to me. He asked me to look at my own behavior. I was like… Me??? As you can imagine, I was looking around the room like he has to be talking about someone else. Why should I look at myself? I havent done anything wrong. See, god loved me so much that he took the time to chastize me like a father does a child. Like he was saying, well yes I see what he did but can you look at this situation at a different angle and ask yourself was there anything that you could have done differently in this situation? (god) Do you make it easy to talk to you about things? (me) I guess, I dont. (god) Do you spend more time telling him what hes doing wrong than what he’s doing right? (me) yes. (god) are you just waiting for him to mess up so you can punish him for it? (me) yes. (god) are you very impatient with him? (me) yes (god) Do you get angry and unforgiven when he lies to you? ( Me: Now we are getting somewhere…Yes Yes I do. I hate liars!! (God)Have I been angry and unforgiven with you when you lie to me?(me) no ( with water filling my eyes) (god) well then, Is his sin any worst than your sin? after all sin is sin to me. It doesnt matter what kind it is. There is not a level scale when it comes to sin. Whether you steal or murder, its all on the same level to me. But my unconditonal love for you will forgive you for any sin. And that right there has opened my eyes to life. I realized that I am not a victim. I realize that I wasnt as perfect of a wife as I thought I was and I realized that I didnt love my husband unconditionally. I loved him but not his flaws. God loves me with my flaws. Sometimes the problems in your marriage or relationships with people is not always them. It actually could be you too. We can not change other people only ourselves. Lets take our mind off ourselves and put it on god. He will direct you the rest of the way.

Protective styling idea. 

spring break protective styling.

Protective styles -mini twists



This is a mini rope twist style. It’s takes about 4 to 5 hours to do. This will be my protective style of choice for a month. I started by cleansing and conditioning my hair, Then I Combed It Out And Sectioned It In 4 Pony tails And Let It Air dry. The only product I used to twist my hair was Murray’s gel lot – lock for natural hair. 1391280628148


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Thanks for blessing my page, naturalhairworldconfessions


SEX…. Is it more of a chore or enjoyment?

This is another open forum for the ladies and gentlemen…

Question: Is sex more of a chore in a marriage/relationship or enjoyment?

I know some people can relate to  both sides. You hear about people being in relationship for a couple of years and lose the sexual enjoyment. Instead it become more of a chore. Something you do out of an obligation. If you didn’t have to do it you wouldn’t.

Quick scenario: chick gets ready for bed in a head scarf, sweat pants, big t-shirt with one sock on and the other one off. Boyfriend/ husband/fiancé, scratching his butt real hard, farts, look at his chic like she did it then yanks his boxers out of his crack just before getting under the covers. The chic has all kind of names going through her head that she wants to call him but instead both of them turn their backs to each other until……… he turns around and press it against her butt and then she has 2 seconds to come up with a good fake snore, get a fast head ache or take a deep breath and give in hoping it will be over soon.

My question is where does things go wrong? and why?  There are no right or wrong opinions.  I

I feel that sex is very important in  a relationship.  It’s where 2 people get a chance to connect on a spiritual level with their soul mate. It relieves stress, it makes your bond closer. It’s enjoyment for me… what about you?